Violet Brielle Spataro

Keep up with sweet Violet's many adventures in blessing others through her own foundation, working with Make-A-Wish America, appearing with Ellen DeGeneres and more on her social media pages: facebook.com/violetbriellespataro instagram : @violetbriellespataro twitter : @violetbrielle Thank you for your continued love and support! Blessings, The Spataro Family Photo: Jeff Hall Photography

Please join Violet in her very special Give Love campaign to benefit Make-A-Wish. When Violet heard that hundreds of children were not receiving wishes due to lack of funding, she immediately wanted to help. Now through Valentine's Day, Violet will be fundraising to  help grant the wishes of children with life-threatening medical conditions.   When asked about her wish, Violet had this to say, "It made me forget all about my hospital appointments. When I got to Disneyland, I was so happy! Mickey played Candy Land with me and everyone called me Princess Violet. I loved it!"  You can help by contributing any amount you feel moved in your heart to give - $10, $50, $100 or even more. Every dollar you donate can help Make-A-Wish kids renew their courage and find a turning point in their lives. Give Love and donate today by clicking HERE . <3

When our friends at Make-A-Wish asked if Violet would like to make her good friend Juni a send off video for her upcoming wish trip to Disneyland, Violet excitedly responded, "Yes! I want to make a video for Juni! Can we do it right now?"  It was so so sweet. We dressed Violet up in her favorite Cinderella dress and tiara that she received on her own wish trip to Disneyland a few months before. These were part of her special princess make-over on her 3rd birthday at the Bippity Boppity Boutique. Violet was giggly and twirling, ready to tell her friend all about the magic she was going to experience.   The result of Violet's pure joy when thinking of her time in Disneyland and the love she has for her friend is this very sweet video below. As thousands have now said, you may want to grab your tissues! For mobile users click HERE . When I was first able to view the finished video through Make-A-Wish, I cried. I imagined Juni and her family seeing it f...

Our sweet and brave Violet is turning 4 and will be celebrating another year of beating cancer!   This December Violet will have to be in the hospital again for her 19th EUA (exam under anesthesia), MRI, labs, oncology and audiology appointments. Before needing to undergo all of this yet again, we would love for Violet to enjoy a wonderful celebration for her birthday on December 6th. Our hope is to provide this celebration for Violet at the Great Wolf Lodge here in Washington. If you are new to Violet's story, please feel free to read more here on the blog. We have documented many of Violet's experiences from the very beginning of diagnosis. Violet began fighting for her life against Retinoblastoma (cancer) at just 7 months old. Over the past 3 years, Violet has had to endure many more difficulties than most adults will experience in their entire lifetime. Through all of this, she has kept a happy heart, a smile on her face and she has inspired us all.  Violet s...

I knew it was coming, but how I felt at the moment it actually happened let me know that I was completely emotionally unprepared for it. I really don't see how a parent could ever be ready to answer something like this. Violet asked me last night, "Mom, why do I have to keep getting my eyes checked?" That is what we call it when we talk to her about her EUAs. We refer to them as simply 'getting her eyes checked'. Violet knows that she had cancer. She understands that she was diagnosed with Retinoblastoma when she was a baby and that she went through chemotherapy to rid her eye of cancer. She knows all too much for such a sweet little innocent girl. Violet has asked about her EUAs many times before, but this time was different. She went on to ask me what the reason was behind having these done all the time. If she was ok and didn't have cancer anymore, than why did she have to keep going through these? I gave her the simplest answer I could and it was...

Violet is so loving with other children. There is just something very special about her caring nature. On many occasions she has told us how much she would love to have a brother or a sister. When we found out that we were pregnant at the beginning of April, we were so overjoyed and thrilled to let Violet know that she was finally going to be a big sister! Violet's face lit up and she jumped up and down with excitement after Josh and I shared the wonderful news with her. For the days to come Violet would sing about the joy of being a big sister and she would hug and kiss my belly. Violet would tell us, "I love our baby sooooo much. I am going to let them play with all of my toys!" After the first month, Violet told us that our baby was a boy and that she was going to have a little brother. It was so precious! She was so happy and our hearts melted as we imagined them playing together in the future. Every week Violet would ask to watch the video online of what our baby...

Violet's next EUA (Exam Under Anesthesia), labs, vision check and oncology clinic are coming up on April 9th and 10th. Please join us in praying for her safety, perfect health and complete healing. We will be posting same day updates to Violet's Facebook page  Violet Brielle - Surviving Retinoblastoma . We are very grateful for all of your prayers! Thank you all so much. (Photo from Violet's special Make-A-Wish trip to Disneyland. :) More to come on that magical trip!)

Wow, Violet's 16th EUA.  That is a lot of under anesthesia procedures for such a little peanut who has just turned 3 years old. And, EUAs are only 1 of the things she has had  to go under anesthesia for. Violet's wish trip to Disneyland was the most amazing and joyous experience. But now, after just a few days back, we have had to snap right into the reality of the hospital again. Still, we are so grateful for the wonderful break we had. It was such a blessed time that we will never forget. ♥ Violet always amazes me with her strength and her resilience. It can't be easy for a child to go from being on cloud 9 at the Happiest Place on Earth and then quickly back into the hospital. It just shouldn't be, but this is her path, and she walks it so gracefully. As her parents, we pray each day that we can also walk it with such grace. It's not easy to do. Violet did tell us that she didn't want to do this today while we were in pre-op. Usually, the concern doesn...

The journey with Violet's left eye has been a lot of back and forth with feeling victorious, then more unknowns and a lot of uncertainty. At the very beginning of Violet's diagnosis with Retinoblastoma, after the specialist had carefully assessed the condition of her left eye, the size of the tumor and the proximity to the optic nerve, we were faced with the decision of fighting to save Violet's eye or removing it completely. Violet's first diagnosis was Unilateral Retinoblastoma, meaning it was found in only one eye. However, Violet was so young at just 7 months old, and so, there was a significant chance that her diagnosis would change to Bi-Lateral Retinoblastoma after time showed us more. With Bi-Lateral Retinoblastoma, there are many more risks.  Tumors could begin to pop up in her non-affected eye in the future and if we removed Violet's left eye she could have the chance of losing both.  We prayed over the  decision and then we took it to heart when the s...

Violet has her next EUA this Wednesday, September 25th. We are awaiting details of our check-in time and hoping that it is an early one. They will also be performing an ERG while Violet is under anesthesia. This will be the very first time they have done this and we are praying for a miracle in her vision! We are so grateful for everyone that has been kindly following Violet's story and supporting us along the way. We will always continue to share here, but we would also like to invite you to Violet's official Facebook page that has been made public. We would love to have you all join us for more frequent updates, photos, information and prayer.  Here:  Violet Brielle - Surviving Retinoblastoma   Please feel free to share Violet's page as well! Thank you all so much for your prayers & love. 

Our sweet Violet is having an amazing summer. We were blessed to start it off with a perfect EUA showing no recurrence! Tears of joy every time. We are so grateful to God for His loving mercy and for His protection over our family. <3 The night before Violet's EUA, we kept her up late in hopes that she would sleep in the next morning as she had a late check-in time. Since she is not able to eat anything before, we wanted her to sleep through as much of the morning as she could. It worked. Violet didn't wake up until 10AM and we had just enough time to get her ready and head out for Seattle Children's Hospital. Violet played games, colored a few pictures and watched Mickey Mouse Clubhouse as we waited in the surgery center waiting area. She was doing really well with no food or drink. Unfortunately, Violet's ophthalmology team ran very behind on this day. We didn't get called back to begin the process of vitals and prep until a little over 2...

Violet has her next EUA this Wednesday the 19th. We just found out that she has an afternoon check-in which is never fun because she is not able to eat at all before the procedure. Please keep her in your prayers for another perfect exam with no recurrence, for safety during this procedure and for this to be as easy on her as possible. Thank you so much!

For the first time in a very long time I feel like we are beginning to live a normal-focused life together as a family. It is an amazing feeling and I am so grateful for it. The days of being in the hospital on a weekly basis gets smaller and smaller in the past behind us. I thank God for that every single day. We are no longer living with family. We have recently moved into a home of our own and we love it very much. And, although we are still in financial strain with all the catching up we have to do, it was time. Time for us to be together on our own, in our own space and to just feel settled. To be able to unpack things from our home in California that we haven't even seen in over 2 years ... it's a wonderful thing! I can never express fully how thankful we are for all the help we have received to get us to this point. And, it is so reassuring to know that we have such an amazing support system to help us get through the years to come with Violet's monitoring ap...

Violet had her last EUA (exam under anesthesia) in December and a follow up with her Oncologist in January. Both appointments had fantastic results! Violet has had no recurrence of cancer and she is exceeding all of her milestones, showing us that her chromosome 13 deletion is having no effects on her physical and mental learning abilities. Praise God with me! :) I say this often and it is with my whole heart, "We are so grateful!" As Violet gets older, it seems the hospital appointments are becoming increasingly difficult for her. It's really hard for Josh and I to see her get so upset and scared. At her last appointment, she screamed when they just went to take her blood pressure. That has never happened before. Violet is obviously starting to associate that one thing leads to the next part that she does not like. Thankfully, Violet is able to go 3 months before she needs to go through it all again. And, we are very hopeful that all will go well with her next EUA...

After singing bedtime songs tonight, Violet snuggled in, sharing my pillow, and held my face close to hers with her little hand. She fell asleep that way. It warmed my heart and made me smile. My thoughts turned right to God and I thanked him for such a precious moment. It was so sweet. We had 3 entire months off from hospital visits this summer and it was so wonderful! We were so happy to have that break. We went to different parks, Seattle Center, Pike's Market, the Bellevue 4th of July festival and had visits from our family in California. Such a blessed time! Violet had a blast and so did we. :) On Wednesday, September 5th, Violet had her EUA (exam under anesthesia) at Seattle Children's Hospital. When the surgery scheduler called to give me all of the pre-procedure guidelines, she had let me know that Violet was the first child on the schedule for the day. I was so grateful because Violet has had so many days where she is later on the schedule and when things run ...